Wednesday, January 17, 2007

À bientôt, Itterasshai, Nos vemos después, Auf Wiedersehen & Poyitu varen

There comes a time to say good-bye. Letting go (literal translation of yo estoy para, a mexican drink offered by my BIL) is one of the most powerful expressions of faith and greatest parting gifts you can offer your loved one. Saying letting go can be painful, but the pain is intensified if the process is entered with the illusion that moments after saying letting go, your loved one won't immediately go. More often, the act of saying letting go is repeated in part, in different forms and by different people over and over. Helping your loved one move from your hands to letting go might include the following:
  • Touch your loved one in a way that is comforting to your loved one. Let your physical presence be part of what nurtures a place of trust.
  • Tell your loved one you love her. If she is unable to respond then answer for her. "And I believe you want to let go too."
  • Tell her that you feel love in this place surrounding you and her. If you can express your experience of love then describe it to her.
  • Forgive your loved one of any past estrangement.
  • Give your loved one permission to let go. If she won't, shove her.

Remember you will likely repeat these acts in different forms many times. Hearing the words over and over creates a foundation of trust so that your loved one can feel secure in letting go.

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  1. How to Good-Bye Depression: If You Constrict Anus 100 Times Everyday.
  2. Golden Fountain: The Complete Guide to Urine Therapy

Khuda Half-is,

Ahnooie.

Saturday, January 06, 2007

Happy New Year

Let me take this opportunity to wish each and everyone of you a very Happy & Prosperous New Year. Incase, it isn't happy & prosperous, tough shit. Life is a bitch.